The wonderful thing about HFBoards: I won't say that Namejs or SaF never gaslight people. In my most active HFBoards time I was a college student who, as both of them can attest, had issues. But I learned to gaslight people in writing and got plenty of practice at it.
Years later, I would say that most of my actual hockey takes were eventually proven wrong. But I'm a lawyer now, so gaslighting people in writing is actually a pretty useful skill.
Most of my actual hockey takes are eventually proven wrong as well, so I'm in the same boat. Even knowing that my area of expertise isn't really evaluating players, trade proposals, making predictions, etc. (but I'm decent at analyzing plays that have already happened, as well as how the rules work, due to being a former player myself, and an official), I post my opinions anyway, because what otherwise is this site for, after all?
As for gaslighting... did you hear the joke about gaslighting? ... yes you did.