I didn't see a fight?
That's like a bench clearing brawl in the SHL. lol
Well if you can choke someone until they tap you've earned the finger wag of disciple.
https://youtube.com/watch?sns=fb&v=FLKogL35-r4&desktop_uri=/watch?v=FLKogL35-r4&sns=fb
The ref was foolish to wag his finger in his face like that. It's one of the first things you learn not to do when dealing with hostile situations. It's a good way to escalate things rather than calming them down.
Edit: in fact I'd say the way ref #6 handled that entire situation was inappropriate.
Slightly off-topic, but what on earth is Devin DiDiomete doing in SHL?
As the links failed me