OT: Sens Lounge LXXXVIV - Roman Numerals!!!!

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Benjamin

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If you want to remain sexy to your significant other this is one of the things you avoid doing, along with continuing to workout/eat well.

Nothing worse than the old marriage bait and switch (aka letting yourself go once 'locking down' a partner)

A little effort here and there (like closing the frigging door) can make all the difference :)

Pooping in front of the other shows your willing to be the extremely vulnerable to them.
 

Saabman0508

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Just out of curiosity, how old were all of you loungers when you got married? I can't see myself getting married until my late 20's or early 30's.

On another note, the league of legends NA LCS finals are being played at the ACC at the end of August. My girlfriend and I are planning to make the trip. Should be a blast! :)
 

BonkTastic

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If you want to remain sexy to your significant other this is one of the things you avoid doing, along with continuing to workout/eat well.

Nothing worse than the old marriage bait and switch (aka letting yourself go once 'locking down' a partner)

A little effort here and there (like closing the frigging door) can make all the difference :)

If your marriage is built around a foundation of "being sexy", it's probably not a terribly stable marriage to begin with.

I mean, I know that's not specifically what you're saying here, and it's good to keep fit in general for plenty of reasons, don't get me wrong, but you should be keeping fit for your own sake, not someone else's.

I don't think enough people getting married these days understand this. Youth and beauty is temporary. If you're marrying someone because you think they're hot, that's a marriage I'll put good money on not lasting through the "Year 7 Crisis".
 

MakeOttawaGreatAgain

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My girlfriend says she doesn't want kids until she's at least 30... that will put me at the nice age of 37. I think that's a beautiful age (assuming I stay fit and healthy). I'll have a lot of money saved up over the next 12 years, I'll have a house, and I will hopefully be less crazy.

Also, I got her hooked on Dragonball... my dream of having a kid named Goku is seeming more realistic by the day.

Also, I hate pooping door open with other people in the house. Bathroom time is my time
 

Here I Pageau Again

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If your marriage is built around a foundation of "being sexy", it's probably not a terribly stable marriage to begin with.

I mean, I know that's not specifically what you're saying here, and it's good to keep fit in general for plenty of reasons, don't get me wrong, but you should be keeping fit for your own sake, not someone else's.

I don't think enough people getting married these days understand this. Youth and beauty is temporary. If you're marrying someone because you think they're hot, that's a marriage I'll put good money on not lasting through the "Year 7 Crisis".

Totally agree.

Although as a female I do think it's important to not totally just give up on your looks when you get married. You will obviously get older, your body will obviously change... but I do think it's important to keep active and healthy. I have a handful of friends who just stopped exercising, cut their hair off the moment they got married. Which is weird to me.

And I'll admit, I'm no fan of pooping with the door open. Although poop talk... bring it on! Just a sign of being 100% open and honest with your relationship. And "sexiness" should not be the focus of your marriage. (But I'm not married so I am just guessing!).
 

saskriders

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Just out of curiosity, how old were all of you loungers when you got married? I can't see myself getting married until my late 20's or early 30's.

On another note, the league of legends NA LCS finals are being played at the ACC at the end of August. My girlfriend and I are planning to make the trip. Should be a blast! :)

With the right girl I could see myself getting married at any time. On the other hand I can't see myself having kids until 35+ if ever.
 

The Lewler

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Married at 27.

Poop with door closed.

Dat door open poop sounds super Alpha, the PUA guys prob do it.

Gotta change your looks to stay stylish, and yes, noone can "let themselves go".

My wife now likes me with a beard.. when I thought she'd hate it.

She knows I hate "mom hair" so keeps her hair in various styles of long for me.
 

PoutineSp00nZ

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With the right girl I could see myself getting married at any time. On the other hand I can't see myself having kids until 35+ if ever.

Im 33 and I feel the same way. I give myself until im 40ish. I don't want to be 60 when my kid graduates high school. I want to be in a solid position financially, and mentally before i have a little spawn walking around. I only want to **** it up so much really. So if it happens it happens, if it doesn't ill just get more cats.

My girlfriend is 10 years younger than me tho, so her internal clock is a bit behind mine. She might feel differently if she was my age tho.
 

saskriders

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Im 33 and I feel the same way. I give myself until im 40ish. I don't want to be 60 when my kid graduates high school. I want to be in a solid position financially, and mentally before i have a little spawn walking around. I only want to **** it up so much really. So if it happens it happens, if it doesn't ill just get more cats.

My girlfriend is 10 years younger than me tho, so her internal clock is a bit behind mine. She might feel differently if she was my age tho.

Yeah, it is just such a huge responsibility on so many levels. I not only want to take advantage of my youth, but I also would want to do as good a job as possible at raising a kid. And I just think most people aren't ready in their 20s.
 

Here I Pageau Again

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My girlfriend is 10 years younger than me tho, so her internal clock is a bit behind mine. She might feel differently if she was my age tho.

As a girl (who's turning 31 in 2 days), I'm definitely wanting kids. My internal clock is like "***** what are you waiting for??? Your eggs are old as ****!!".
 

Caeldan

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As a girl (who's turning 31 in 2 days), I'm definitely wanting kids. My internal clock is like "***** what are you waiting for??? Your eggs are old as ****!!".

HBD HIPA!

I definitely have my clock ticking loudly now too. We need to sort out when she's eligible for ohip though... She's got a valid work permit but keeps getting only 2-3 month contracts through the university full time... And works permanently part time...
In the process of permanent residence but apparently far enough along to pay the government 1000 total so far, but not far enough along to be considered eligible for permanent residence for the sake of ohip...
And I've noticed the weirdest clause where the spouse of a working work permit holder is eligible, but can't find anything to say that the spouse of a Canadian citizen is eligible.
 

Nac Mac Feegle

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When you have cats (especially a Maine Coon) you always need to lock the door....or you'll end up pooping with the door open whether you want to or not. There's something about a closed bathroom door that drives felines inane. :P
 

Here I Pageau Again

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HBD HIPA!

I definitely have my clock ticking loudly now too. We need to sort out when she's eligible for ohip though... She's got a valid work permit but keeps getting only 2-3 month contracts through the university full time... And works permanently part time...
In the process of permanent residence but apparently far enough along to pay the government 1000 total so far, but not far enough along to be considered eligible for permanent residence for the sake of ohip...
And I've noticed the weirdest clause where the spouse of a working work permit holder is eligible, but can't find anything to say that the spouse of a Canadian citizen is eligible.

Thanks!

And yeah I'd figure out the OHIP first. Having a baby can be very expensive (medical bill wise). Just for a healthy one. I'll be very thankful for lesser medical bills having a baby (although depending on the bf and I ... still may expect some bills if there are chemo side effects). Which doesn't help my internal clock from thinking... start early if things don't go as easy as planned.

Also where is your wife from originally?
 

Caeldan

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She's from Brazil.
We made it safe and sound to the first destination! Now in London :)
 

Here I Pageau Again

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Nice! Enjoy the honeymoon....

I'm slowly attempting to convince the bf that a Europe vacation is worth the money... he's cheap cheap cheap.
 

FunkySeeFunkyDoo

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Im 33 and I feel the same way. I give myself until im 40ish. I don't want to be 60 when my kid graduates high school....

It is wise to consider your age for all the things that will happen down the road with your kids... But don't make the mistake of assuming you'll have only one. Once you have the first you will have a really strong urge to have a second!
 

The Lewler

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HBD HIPA!

I definitely have my clock ticking loudly now too. We need to sort out when she's eligible for ohip though... She's got a valid work permit but keeps getting only 2-3 month contracts through the university full time... And works permanently part time...
In the process of permanent residence but apparently far enough along to pay the government 1000 total so far, but not far enough along to be considered eligible for permanent residence for the sake of ohip...
And I've noticed the weirdest clause where the spouse of a working work permit holder is eligible, but can't find anything to say that the spouse of a Canadian citizen is eligible.

How long ago did you submit your PR application?

#1. I assume this is a family class PR app, and she didn't apply for Express Entry (old Canada Experience Class) correct?

#2. Did you make an application for her as the sponsored person as inside or outside of Canada?

I assume by you saying $1000 that you have paid the application fee and the right of permanent residence fee upfront , to try an keep processing times down.

#4. Do you know what phase you are at yet?

#5. If you applied inside Canada , have you passed the eligibility phase? (Used to be called Stage 1).

Depending on your answers to these questions I can help you drill down what you need to do.

edit: We should PM obvy
 
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PeterSidorkiewicz

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The only thought that crosses my mind is how easy it is to get a gun in the States.

Like I don't even know the process in Canada, but I know it's not as easy as walking into a Walmart and putting an order in

The arguments always get deflected when I read them from afar. Someone says assault weapons should be banned then someone else says guns don't kill people do.

I have never once had someone explain to me why an assault weapon should be legal here. Everything else aside, why? What's the rationale for its legality? Even if this shooting still occurs, why should that weapon be legal?
 

The Lewler

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The only thought that crosses my mind is how easy it is to get a gun in the States.

Like I don't even know the process in Canada, but I know it's not as easy as walking into a Walmart and putting an order in

If you have a license, sure it is.

It's all degrees of checks and balances vs freedoms.

That licensing step helps a lot, the registration system is fairly useless.
 

The Lewler

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The arguments always get deflected when I read them from afar. Someone says assault weapons should be banned then someone else says guns don't kill people do.

I have never once had someone explain to me why an assault weapon should be legal here. Everything else aside, why? What's the rationale for its legality? Even if this shooting still occurs, why should that weapon be legal?

"Assault weapon" is a BS term, so some people reflexively want to shout down the BS, then it all gets dragged into the weeds.

I can guess with almost 100 % certainty, the rifle used was a semi-automatic rifle. Even in the USA, it's hard to get your hands on a full-auto firearm.

So aside from styling that makes it look "assault weapon-y" it is no different than any other .308 semi auto "hunting" rifle.

Ergo, I could make an "assault" on massed people with a 'hunting rifle', and it's no different outcome then using an "assault style" rifle.

So to make a consistent coherent argument, the anti-gun position has to be, ban all semi-auto firearms.

This argument is of course grounded in the assumption that if this person hadn't been able to get their hands on a semi-auto, they might not have killed so many people... accepting that he if he was this driven, he would get his hands on a gun and kill people either way (with a bolt or lever action etc)... which is a ****** and ineffectual bar to aim for. (Look to Europe for mass killings with Ak-47's in very gun controlled countries as an example).

I've always found the focus on "type of gun" argument to be weak.

It's much better to push for better licensing, screening and background checks for prospective gun owners.


All that being true and valid.. in this case it does very much appear to leave the elephant in the room unaddressed.. that being suspected radical Islamic motivation.
 
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PeterSidorkiewicz

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It still doesn't answer the question as to why that specific gun used is legal though. What purpose does it serve?

And yes I'm totally for focusing on better licensing, screening and checks as the main focus.

A semi automatic rifle still serves zero purpose to society. So because someone committed murder with an AK-47 and someone can get their hands on it, should it just be legal then?
 
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