I have a hard time blaming them tooooooo much for some of these "dumb stick penalties". So much of what's dumb about them just comes from the game management decisions made by the refs. If they really called a penalty every single time any player touched another with his stick, there'd be dozens of such calls each game. But instead they just randomly pick a small fraction of them in order to arbitrarily manage the flow of the game. Many of the calls have been extremely weak.
Heck, it's to the point now that a player can reach down, grab an opponent's stick, wedge it under his arm, and pick up a PP. The chicken wing is the diving of 2022.