Im shaking my head. I have been to the States many times, loved visiting. Always viewed the USA as the brother nation.
I know your president realized that Canada is ridiculously dependent on the USA , and thought what if America crushed Canada economically ? Could he make us desperate enough to ask for Statehood ? This is for real. All of a sudden, the USA is actually drifting towards being an enemy. To me , I cheered for Canada as I used to cheer for Canada against the Soviet Union during the Cold War. This just feels wrong, but to feel otherwise is to deny the reality we are in. America is not our friend and cannot be trusted, and it happened just like that.
But thank you for your post, I know that many Americans feel as you do.