Brashear was born in
Bedford,
Indiana, but moved to
Val-Bélair,
Quebec, his mother's ancestral village, as a child.
Brashear is the youngest of three children born to an
American father, Johnny Brashear, and Nicole Gauthier, who was mainly of French-Canadian descent, in
Bedford, Indiana. His father was an alcoholic who relentlessly abused his family, including slashing Donald with belts and electrical cords. On one occasion, when Donald was only six months old, he picked him up and hurled him through a window.
[2] Nicole, afraid that Johnny might kill her, left the family and returned to Canada. Later, she came back to take the children but left Donald to live with his father for another four years,
[2] until Donald's paternal grandmother sent him to Canada.
[3] Donald's mother later stated that she left him behind because her future husband was prejudiced and wanted to avoid having another mixed-race child in the house.
[2]
Brashear eventually moved in with his mother and stepfather in
Lorretteville, Quebec. Because of his stepfather's racist attitude, he suffered further abuse in his new surroundings; for instance, he was forced to sleep with a garbage bag tied around his waist to keep him from wetting the bed and was verbally berated for not being able to tie his shoes.
[2] His mother finally decided to give him up to
foster care, due in part because of what she called "mental problems" from the abuse he had suffered, and because he did not accept her as his mother.
[2] Brashear lived in two different foster homes that sent him away since the families believed he was a "little too much to handle."
[3]
At the age of eight, Brashear moved to
Val-Bélair,
Quebec, and settled into a new foster home. Once there, he began playing hockey with his new siblings.
[3]To help pay for hockey, Brashear sold baked bread and garbage bags door-to-door, and later became a paper boy.
[3] He played in the 1984, 1985 and 1986
Quebec International Pee-Wee Hockey Tournaments with three separate
minor ice hockey teams from Quebec City.
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