My vocabulary switches depending on who im talking to and the environment im in. If it's a customer service kind of job obviously i dont use inappropriate language. Ill be the most courteous young man the customers ever seen. But if im telling my best buds a story about some Pejorative Slur that rear ended me cos he was eating a cheeseburger and talking on the phone while driving, and someone happens to hear me say that, then they can **** off. If im with my friends then anything goes--anything--even though wed never say half that stuff outside the friends.
It's people who raise a stink about something someone said and they were not part of the conversation that i cant stand. Whistleblowers can gtfo. It's even worse when the guilty makes an apology not because they give a ****, but because they are trying to save face and prevent a total public image smear. And that's like, alll the time now. It's pathetic.