The overboard reactions are all part of the fun!
Sorry many of us have more emotion than the players... but it's why we are fans. It's a rollercoaster, the ups, the downs, we are here for them all. Oh, and most of us will be back on Tuesday... with more overreactions! Good and bad ;-)
You are 100% correct about where the frustrations come from, for the most part.
No one here needs to apologize or hold back. Let it fly, it's the only reason this place exists. Blow some steam off... overreact, have a laugh, and get ready for the next one.
I find it comical that many of the so called sane posters, and this is not aimed at you at all, prance in here and claim their maturity and hockey knowledge brilliance, throw some shade to try and make the keyboard hereos feel bad about themselves and then prance back off with their heads held so high.
Come here, read what you want, reply to what you want. Igonore who you want. Don't judge people and have some f***in fun people.
Note, this applies to like 4 people lol