Oh believe me, when the referring was as bad as in the last Nashville game, I'll **** on the zebras. It's the role they play. Don't we all, since a young age, **** on authority figures? From our parents to the po-po to the pope himself, we love to "punch up" as it were.
Having said that, in my mind, I put "refereeing" on the same level as "card luck" when I play competitive poker -- a random, capricious force beyond my control, but one I have faith evens out in the end. A random bias I can calculate the variance of, and is impersonal and egalitarian in Her whimsy so I can cuss her when I lose and praise Her when I win, but at the end of the day, her voice has a measurable impact on one day's competition that (like all loud yawps) fades over time.
But yeah, I don't buy the "Bettman hates Winnipeg" narrative. And this is coming from a man that would boo Bettman even if he were presenting the Jets with the cup, because that's the role he's embraced. "I thought you were the city of Brotherly Love", he trolled Philadelphia with. "Boo me if you must, but this is a home rink game for me", he trolled New Jersey with, because NJ types are so ****ing grumpy they'll even boo their own
We might disagree on "the end of the season" but not "in the long run"; we'd only argue over how long we measure the long run.