I've fallen in love with the girl at the Timmy's drive-thru

Bubba Thudd

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or, you could order an "Al Cappuccino".
When she asks what that is, you can brag about your membership here.
Killer icebreaker, bro.
 

PaGEEsBack

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Just ask her out. When she says no, never go back because of the shame of embarrassment.

I've thought of this, but this particular Timmy's is right around the corner from my house and honestly cuts time out of my morning commute. Would rather keep my mouth shut than give up a good reliable thing I got going.

The relationship probably wouldn't work out anyway.
 

Hammettf2b

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In all honesty, if she seems really nice, I don't see the harm in asking her out. From the way you described her, it doesn't seem she would be weirded out by it.
 

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Defeatist attitude! Love it! :handclap:

This is in no way a defeatist attitude. It's all about priorities. When I finally decide I'm ready to get back onto my caffeine fix, then I'll naturally want the Tim Hortons closest me to be available. Make sense?

Gotta think these fine details through, broseph.
 

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In all honesty, if she seems really nice, I don't see the harm in asking her out. From the way you described her, it doesn't seem she would be weirded out by it.

But that's exactly my problem - what if she is weirded out by it? Imagine the fallout, the drama. My whole world closing in on me in an instant...

I can't handle that ****, mang.
 

Hammettf2b

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But that's exactly my problem - what if she is weirded out by it? Imagine the fallout, the drama. My whole world closing in on me in an instant...

I can't handle that ****, mang.

That's the risk you have to be willing to take!!!

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Devourers

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I've thought of this, but this particular Timmy's is right around the corner from my house and honestly cuts time out of my morning commute. Would rather keep my mouth shut than give up a good reliable thing I got going.

The relationship probably wouldn't work out anyway.

Stop being a wussy. You're trying to cut back on caffeine anyways. That's just an excuse. Don't be a Jee, be an OG. Just ask her out, no roses no bs. She'll probably say yes if she doesn't have a bf, I think you underestimate how much being confident can work but you just have to sack up and ask.

PS: She won't be weirded out, she'll be flattered regardless and if she is weirded out then she wasn't worth the trouble.
 

Ceremony

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No avatar has ever complimented a post the way yours does the OP.
 

Nalens Oga

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Does she only work the drive-thru? It might be worth going inside and seeing if you can do a face to face order and then strike up a conversation that way and ask her out after work 'oh hey I recognize you, I thought you only worked drive-thru' etc. Would probably wanna try doing this at a different time than when you usually order because she's probably always at the drive-thru window at that point but there's a good chance that they take shifts and she's working the counter at a different point.

Also, I can't tell if this thread is serious or satire since I don't normally enter the lounge but this seemed like a sweet/sad story and I felt bad (assuming it's not a joke). I tend to assume every decent random girl has a bf or husband though unless I know for a fact they don't.

Edit: OT but I always found the idea of a Tim Hortons drive-thru to be really weird since most people just get a coffee or a pre-made donut/timbits and those take like a 30-60 seconds to get after ordering.
 

Zorf

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I've thought of this, but this particular Timmy's is right around the corner from my house and honestly cuts time out of my morning commute. Would rather keep my mouth shut than give up a good reliable thing I got going.

The relationship probably wouldn't work out anyway.

She's the girl of your dreams and you're going into it saying it probably won't work out? You make that thing work out.


She clearly knows who you are. Just step it up next time. Ask her when her shift ends. Ask if she wants to go for a coffee...then laugh about it because she probably hates coffee after serving it all day.

But seriously, just ask her out. Say, "hey, what are you doing after your shift?" and then go from there. You're in the drive through, so you hve the benefit of keeping it brief.

"Hey, what are you doing after your shift?"
depending on her answer you can then say, "When do you get off work?" Then she can answer with the time and you say, "Cool, see you then." and then drive away. No time for it to get awkward

AND THEN BE THERE WHEN SHE GETS OFF WORK! If you're at work when she ends her shift, tell your boss you have the runs and need to go home. Don't nobody mess with the runs. That's a get out of work free card. Just use it wisely.


Don't live in regret, man.


What's the worst that can happen? Even if you get shot down, go back for coffee the next day and act like everything is normal. she'll either appreciate the effort you're putting in to pursue her, or, you'll just get over the slight embarrassment and you can keep getting coffee at your local Tim's.

It's a small risk for a potential huge reward. Go for it.
 

Ceremony

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She's the girl of your dreams and you're going into it saying it probably won't work out? You make that thing work out.

When I got out of high school I was still sixteen and I got a job at Wal-Mart. I didnt know what else to do. We needed the money. What little it was. Anyway, the night before I went down there I had this dream. Or it was like a dream. I think I was still about half awake. But it come to me in this dream or whatever it was that if I went down there that he would find me. At the Wal-Mart. I didnt know who he was or what his name was or what he looked like. I just knew that I'd know him when I seen him. I kept a calendar and marked the days. Like when you're in jail. I mean I aint ever been in jail, but like you would probably. And on the ninety-ninth day he walked in and he asked me where the sportin goods was at and it was him. And I told him where it was at and he looked at me and went on. And directly he come back and he read my nametag and he said my name and he looked at me and he said: What time do you get off? And that was all she wrote. There was not no question in my mind. Not then, not now, not ever.
 

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I drove up and ordered my coffee at the usual time this morning but she wasn't at the window. Turns out she was on break and sitting with a coworker at the staff picnic table just around the corner from the pick-up window. Didn't notice this until I saw her waving at me out of the corner of my eye. I instinctively tried to wave back to her with fresh coffee still in one hand and in the middle of the left-hand turn around the building. I scraped the curb and lost my front-right hubcap. I didn't know what to do at that point so I just drove off.

I can never go back. There will be no more updates.
 

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