I get it, everyone comes from different walks of life, environments, personalities etc… but damn. I grew out of my party phase in my late 20’s/early 30’s. I’m pushing 40 now, haven’t had a drop of liquor of any kind in five years, and don’t care if I never see the inside of a bar again the rest of my life. I will have a few puffs in the evening after the kids go to bed to unwind and that’s pretty much it. I can’t imagine being 50 or however old RA is and still be acting like a booze fueled frat boy. I’d be embarrassed.
I don’t know if he has kids or not but if so.. yikes. Get your shit together.