Not so sure about that.
Kids growing up and playing street hockey - pond hockey - youth hockey - etc...What are they playing for? Norris Trophy? Art Ross Trophy? Mark Messier Leadership Award?
Are they dreaming of being the highest paid player in the league?
Well - maybe I'm getting old...Maybe 'kids' these days dream of that crap...
No, but they dream of being Pavel Datsyuk, Wayne Gretzky, Connor McDavid. They don't necessarily dream of being a 4th liner in a Stanley Cup winning team.
Would Joe give up all his accolades to raise a cup(not money earned...don't know who started that BS)?
What does giving up the accolades mean? Do his seasons get written out of reality? What are the parameters? Joe Thornton doesn't have a lot of individual awards. I'm sure that he would be fine with Jagr scoring 126 instead of 123 points and winning the Hart/Ross over him if that meant he got to win a Cup. It wouldn't really chance the perception of Joe Thornton's individual career and level of play.
I'm sure he'd be hell pissed of if all of his NHL career points were just erased, nobody would know they existed, he wouldn't be Joe Thornton the hockey player and he would find himself as a cheerleader in one Cup victory.
With a player the caliber of McDavid, it is of absolute essence that he wins individual awards to be McDavid. I do not for a second think that McDavid would trade being McDavid the hockey player to winning a Cup.