There are about 60-70% more assists than there are goals. Statistically that shows that goals are more valuable and hard to accumulate. This is further ilustrated from the qualitative understanding that the primary objective of hockey is to score goals.
Realistically, I'm on board with a primary assist = a goal, but secondary assists do not have the same value to me as goals do. The 2nd assist is arbitrary and if the NHL decided to never count them back in the day, nobody would really bat an eye - similar to how most soccer leagues don't count secondary assists, and similar to how we don't see people here advocating for tertiary assists.
I agree that sometimes the primary or secondary assist can be more fundamental to the goal. But the reality is that the further you go down the chain: Goal -> primary assist -> secondar assist -> tertiary assist -> 4th assist etc. the less impactful or meaningful that play or pass goes towards the final outcome which is the goal.
I will take a guy that is 80 goals, 20 assists over the 20 goal, 80 assist guy. Therefore also logical to say that I would still take the 80 goal (100 point) guy over the 20 goal (110 point) guy even if he had 10 more points.