Dr Quincy
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- Jun 19, 2005
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Doctors typically don't approach this sort of issue in terms of absolute certainties. It's about probabilities. I know that's a little highbrow for us here where it would probably be considered dodging responsibility, but if a doctor says "90% chance that he won't surgery", and then he needs surgery, that doesn't mean those doctors are fools and that your cousin Cleetus who has back problems is the smart one.
My cousin Cleetus wouldn't pull a number like "90% chance" out of his rectum like you did.
But sure, pretend like this hasn't been an unexpected set back if it makes you feel better. My great-aunt Louise went to a shrink once, so she'd know enough to call that coping by denial.