MarchysNoseKnows
Big Hat No Cattle
- Feb 14, 2018
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This is pretty reductive and completely inaccurate. My youngest son is a very good player. I could have him play town with a shitty structure (playing escape room and fishy fishy cross my ocean as a first year squirt) and have him play with players several levels below him. Or he can play where all the other good players are. This suggestion that it’s all about the parents egos applies to a very small percentage of hockey parents. 95%+ of hockey parents I’ve interacted with (and that’s a lot, as I’ve coached for several years and have two kids in where we’ve had over 55 games just since Christmas) just want what’s best for their kids. To play in a team at the right level for them where they have a good coach and they have fun.Which goes back to the parents, who want to boast that their kids are playing select hockey.
There are very loud issues with a small handful of parents/coaches etc. 20 years ago if a mom went in the ice to try to fight a ref in Upsilanti, no one would now about it. Now everyone sees it, and it gives an inaccurate representation of what most parents are like.
I have my issues with MA club hockey for sure. But it’s not how you describe it.