I'll shed some light on why he's considered a dirty player and why his name was frequently mentioned in the most hated players thread from a couple months ago.
It's not to do with hits or suspendable offences. He doesn't do much of that. It's because on numerous occasions at the end of games the Blues are losing, Backes punks out and attacks skilled players on the other team - but when someone bigger and tougher comes to the rescue of the skilled players, Backes somehow always manages to back away and allow a referee to get between them. He attacks players who are smaller and are no threat to him, and runs like a ***** from players who could tune him up. Again. this most often happens at the end of games the Blues are losing. He's a poor sport, a punk and a bully who hopefully one day gets what's coming to him.
I can't speak for all of Blues fans but I don't disagree with you. I think Backes is a hothead idiot and I'm not a fan of that stuff you mentioned, which I have complained about on the Blues board before and is one of the reasons I'd like to see how the Blues perform with a more composed captain (Jaden Schwartz is the guy I want to be our next captain).
I think Blues fans are just trying to point out that Backes isn't a guy that runs around and throws dirty hits. He has a temper and tries to fight when things aren't going his way (against weak star players, yes) - which again I really could do without, but there is a distinct difference between the two. You probably already know this, just laying out my thoughts though. Backes definitely isn't innocent, not at all.
Yeah I've never understood this. Backes is a first line player who gets ripped because he doesn't fight third and fourth line goons. It's the stupidest thing that is talked about when it comes to Backes.
That's just not looking at the big picture. He could fight other top-liners that can actually fight (you know other big guys like Getzlaf, Thornton, Benn, Iginla, etc). But he'll typically go after guys like Duchene, MacKinnon, the Sedins, etc. It'd be like if Joe Thornton tried picking a fight with Tarasenko, which would be dumb. I'm a Blues fan but you guys have to admit that it's stupid when Backes does those things.