The point is women shouldn’t have to go with someone to retrieve their own property. The fact you think she does is why there’s a problem. There’s that analogy Dave Chapelle uses about the backpack full of money…
You look at the vile thought process by far too many people in this thread that want to blame the victim and it’s always the same here with that sort of bullshit line of thinking of “oh well, she put herself in that position” or that she might be lying. Whereas Panarin literally has incidents in his past that suggest behaviour like this wouldn’t be out of question at all and yet more are inclined to believe him or give him the benefit of the doubt when we’ve heard about far too many sexual assault cases recently in the NHL, Juniors, etc. The NHL has allowed rapists and other sick f***s to play in the NHL and then acts like it’s better than the other leagues with handling it.
The point you mention is self evident. I don’t understand how somehow you felt the need to state the obvious. What was the point of that? Anyways… what I am talking about is not the overall (let me state it again: very obvious) principle per sé: what I am talking about is what actually
happened.
And in regards to that, of all things this young lady could have done to protect herself from that jackass, just about the last thing was to show up to his door
alone. It would be painfully obvious to everyone with even just a few working synapses, and I would bet that it was obvious to this lady too, that Panarin grabbing her phone and bringing it to his room was a ruse to get her to go to his room. And that not to play videogames or watch TV, either…
So, this lady could have simply involved someone higher up in the organization (anyone in a supervisor capacity), so that her phone would have been returned to her or, if she was wanting to be extra nice to Panarin in regards to not escalating things, she could have simply gone there with someone else (a colleague or colleagues) and I do think that at that point Panarin wouldn‘t have done any of what he did in front of witnesses.
Instead she chose to go to his room all by herself: how stupid is that? Very, in my opinion. And that‘s all I am saying. I am not excusing Panarin in any way, shape or form. All I am saying is that this young lady needs to smarten up a little bit, because in this world, with plenty of people ready to hurt you solely to gain whatever advantage they want to get, if she doesn‘t use her brain, it‘ll be a rough path.
This is ALL I was saying. I am not interested in what other people are saying in this thread: I speak for myself, not for anyone else. Hope this is clearer.