Tawnos
A guy with a bass
Are you insane?
It's more insane to assume anything about someone else's relationship. I'm also someone who knows people in two marriages where the husband was given permission by his wife to sleep with another woman while she was pregnant. Both were over 10 years ago and both marriages are still going strong.
Personally, that doesn't fit my values. It was shocking to find out about. The point is... you shouldn't assume that anyone has the same values as you, or even the same values as the mainstream.