I think it's good that society has caught up to actually giving a shit about abuse and trauma so I'm glad that there is public accountability finally for this stuff.
On the other hand, we don't know how involved he was with that situation directly, and a lot of people are (and were) completely unprepared, ignorant, and clueless when it comes to how to handle something so grotesque and exploitative.
Add the toxic masculinity aspects of 'how could this happen to a man?' (which is completely ignorant and hurtful, and is lessening as a perspective, but still present) adds further to the cloudiness.
If he was directly involved in the reference letter for Aldrich, while having full knowledge of his transgressions, then I'm not sure how one can redeem themselves from that.
On the other hand, we don't know how he has been spending his time and energy in the past several years. A lot of these hockey guys (players and execs) are incredibly good at one thing and completely stunted intellectually and emotionally in a variety of ways.
IF he has actually, earnestly learned humbly and taken full accountability for his actions, including reaching out for forgiveness to Beach, etc etc. Then I'm not one who thinks he needs to be punished in perpetuity AS LONG AS there is genuine reflection and improvement, not ticking a box to make yourself employable.
I just think it's really easy to moralize from afar while forgetting that these are people and that there needs to be a space for improvement and forgiveness when the improvement is humble, vulnerable, and authentic.
Now, do any of these factors exist? I'm not sure. I may not be aware of a variety of details that are publicly accessible as I choose not to closely follow a topic that touches close to some of my work.
And without knowing Bowman personally or professionally I can't speculate on whether he IS worthy of a second chance. But I do think that in a vacuum, someone CAN be worthy of a second chance even after wreaking havoc through horrendous ignorance.
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That said, this looks terrible on the Oilers. They live in such a shithole that the only way to get 'high value' employees seems to be to buy off their own HR. Perry, Kane, now Bowman. There's a pretty ugly pattern here that makes them look terrible and exceedingly easy to root against.