GIN ANTONIC
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Ya, it was a goof and a lighthearted comedy bit. Was it inappropriate... sure I guess. If you want to be black and white about this then in any profession you shouldn't be 'asking for digits' to anyone while you're on the job and especially not on TV. But the reason he likely did it in the first place was because it was a gag bit and not a serious romantic attempt. If he did it off camera then that's actually probably more inappropriate, but as always it's more about how you approach it than anything.Exactly. A woman never is put in that situation. The guy always asks for the #'s.
I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here, and then everyone said it was unprofessional. Whatever
Ask for someones number in a respectful genuine non-pushy way... no problem. If they give you their number, then great. If not, then move along and don't be a creep.
I don't think most women have an issue with being asked out, it's just about who is doing the asking and how.
Now to the larger point of misogyny is alive and well... that may be the case but that's not what's happening here. If you want to make the case that this perpetuates certain behaviours and stereotypes, I guess you can do that, but it seems like a lot of pearl clutching over something that isn't quite that. If he was being gross and pushy and bullied/intimidated them into giving the number then ya, I could see that, but it sounds like they want to make the case that men shouldn't ask out women or something which is pretty dumb.