From his perspective, sure. I don't blame him personally at all. I'm saying it is disappointing from MY perspective as a fan. In my job I don't have hundreds or thousands of people who are emotionally/financially invested in where I work next year. From my perspective it would be more akin to a manager who just lost a great employee to another organization who was offering more money. I wouldn't blame them but I sure as hell liked having them on my team and am disappointed to see them leave.
All I heard all year was about how this was the best locker room ever and how the guys were so tight. I don't think it is controversial to say that it would have been nice if Aho had come out like William Karlsson and said "I love Carolina and it is important for me to be here long-term." We got pretty much the opposite.
We got that last year, repeatedly, including at the start of the season.
"Canes owner Tom Dundon has said he’d like Aho signed to a long-term contract and Aho said the same Monday.
“Yeah, for sure, definitely,” Aho said. “I like it here. I love living here.”
And that was before he actually tasted success and the post-season in Carolina.
He wasn't getting the offer he wanted from Dundon and Waddell. Now he can get the contract he wants and play where he loves (Carolina). If Carolina refuses, he found a place he will be happy to play (Montreal.)
If the employee you lost came to you and said "this is the offer I have, I'll stay if you can match it" and you/your company decline, they gave you a chance.
Aho didn't refuse to come to the table for a year and sign the first offer sheet he could. He negotiated, he tried, and when he felt he wasn't getting what he wanted he found a way within the system to get it.