I think it was more of a "Out of Sight, Out of Mind" type of situation with the parents. While it was presented as "cultural", I had the impression it was more of "as long as he isn't with us, do whatever you want" type of vibe, but I can't even imagine what it is like to be a parent in that situation.
Like the situation
@Danko is in. This sounds absolutely unbearable. From both the individual with the disabilities leading to those conditions and their parents. You deserve a medal every single day.