What do you consider cheating? (relationship wise)

[Hammettf2b]

How far can you or your s/o go before one or the other says its cheating and would you give your s/o a second chance if caught or visa versa?

Provocative dancing? ie: "grinding" on a person and what not

Kissing? Cheek, lips, tongue involved?

Emotional friend? ie: constantly talking with someone about your emotions/hanging out with them very often

Ect...


What say you Lounge?

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[AnAceOfKidneys]

 

[Pharrell Williams]

sexual connection of any sort + deception = cheating

the deception is key

i would be a bit irked if my girlfriend were to grind on somebody else, but wouldn't consider it cheating unless she lied about it. actually na probs wouldn't consider that cheating, just super uncool.

kissing would be tho. sending nudes. sexting. not nice things.

 

[Pharrell Williams]

also my ex cheated on me for months (sexting, nudes, possible sex but i do not know about that) and i forgave her because i am a stupid man and then she cheated on me again smh

 

[John Price]

using aimbot

 

[Dr Pepper]

also my ex cheated on me for months (sexting, nudes, possible sex but i do not know about that) and i forgave her because i am a stupid man and then she cheated on me again smh

That's unfortunate. Hope you kicked her to the curb.

 

[KrisLetAngry]

Any nudes get sent.

A kiss or any higher then that.

That's cheating for me.

Unless it's like a dare and it's another girl and I get to see it

 

[John Price]

 

[Pharrell Williams]

That's unfortunate. Hope you kicked her to the curb.

i did and then she threatened to kill herself if i didn't keep talking to her smh but eventually i stopped talking to her

 

[Chris Hagen*]

If they do something that they know would upset you if you found out, that's cheating.

 

[Bones Malone]

If they do something that they know would upset you if you found out, that's cheating.

Agreed. If it needs to be hidden it's cheating.

 

[Hammettf2b]

If they do something that they know would upset you if you found out, that's cheating.

Even if its texting/talking with a friend on the phone/hanging out just as friends?

 

[Satan]

no lady advice threads

 

[Chris Hagen*]

Even if its texting/talking with a friend on the phone/hanging out just as friends?

If she doesn't tell me that she's hanging out with someone as friends then there's something more than 'friends' going on there.

 

[Hammettf2b]

If she doesn't tell me that she's hanging out with someone as friends then there's something more than 'friends' going on there.

Ok, just for arguments sake, lets say she did tell you but you don't like it and she still does it?

 

[AnAceOfKidneys]

Ok, just for arguments sake, lets say she did tell you but you don't like it and she still does it?

that would make her a cheater and a *****.

 

[Hammettf2b]

that would make her a cheater and a *****.

wow really? To me it sounds like the person that denies their significant other to hang out with a friend has some serious trust issues.

 

[Bones Malone]

Ok, just for arguments sake, lets say she did tell you but you don't like it and she still does it?

I don't know if there's a blanket rule to apply to that. More context needed. Is it an ex or something along those lines or are you just a paranoid jealous bf?

 

[Hammettf2b]

I don't know if there's a blanket rule to apply to that. More context needed. Is it an ex or something along those lines or are you just a paranoid jealous bf?

I was thinking of just a paranoid jealous bf/gf

 

[Chris Hagen*]

It's way too much of a hypothetical to give a proper response to.

 

[Siamese Dream]

Thinly veiled attempt to revive the Lady Advice Thread

 

[Bones Malone]

I was thinking of just a paranoid jealous bf/gf

You can't dictate someone else's life. Double middle fingers to anyone who tells me I can't do something without a reason.

 

[The Gongshow]

Is this a lady advice thread

 

[Chris Hagen*]

 

[Hammettf2b]

You can't dictate someone else's life. Double middle fingers to anyone who tells me I can't do something without a reason.

That's my thinking but I was wondering if Hagen thought that was cheating, but apparently it's too much of a hypothetical.