ok so it goes like dis
I'm involved with a student club
it's a good club
I like the people in it and stuff, I have fun doing events with them and helping organize given my role in the club.
Honestly nothing wrong with the situation.
But I want to go to a different club
Nothing wrong with the old one, just I like some things this one has to offer better and it's a bit bigger and I feel it will fit better with what I am looking to get out of my club.
But I don't know how to go about telling the higherups and my friends in the current club I want to/am going to leave. I don't want them to think they did something wrong, or there was any friction and I still want to be friends and go to their events and interact with those lads, but I want to go to the new club.
And like my current club is a lot smaller and a lot of people are inactive and don't participate and it's hard to get people when there's lots of bigger clubs around. So I feel bad leaving cause I'm really active and participate and what not and I feel (not trying to be cocky) that I'm like a bigger member to the club cause only a handful of us are super active and participate. I don't want to hurt the club and be the beginning of everyone jumping ship cause a few people have chattered about it given that the club is just a small handful of lads and mostly dead otherwise.
How do I go about this where I can not hurt the club and offend anyone but still keep them as friends. They're mostly good people who won't take it personally but I don't wanna start tearing down what the owners built.